Very few people jump into their first phone sex session with amazing talents or natural ability. Those people that seem like they are naturals had likely learned a lot about communication and expression before giving it a go. With these fantastic tips, you can learn to improve the phone sex that you have both as a listener and as a speaker.
1. Allow For Back-And-Forth
Most often, the best phone sex is phone sex where both people are engaged. Simple things like pausing enough to let the other person express themselves can make a huge difference in the quality of your phone sex. Also, engaging verbally with the other people by adding descriptive words into the conversation and fantasy are great ways to keep the conversation exciting.
2. Explore Yourself
Explore yourself, so you are comfortable describing what it is you like and have more things to try on other people. Taking the time to explore your body, your sexuality, and what both you and other person like, can significantly improve your happiness and sex life in general.
2. Think Of Sexy And Pleasurable Words
There are a lot of words that people don't tend to use that can easily be applied to phone sex. When you find that sexy gay man of your phone sex desires, you will want to be able to use your words to keep them engaged. The people you meet on our gay sex hotline are the same. Instead of using the word cock all of the time, switch it up and use other words like dick, for example. While some words might not fit the tone of the phone sex you are having, many words do. Think of descriptive action words, like tugging, and body parts that might not commonly be used, like stomach, earlobe, or collarbone. These types of places and words are great for describing pleasurable places on the body and activities.