Don’t let your shyness keep you from having an active dating life. Sometimes by simply taking the stress down a notch or two can help tremendously and you may feel at ease to open up. When you get on phone chat, you don’t have to worry about all the things that go into having an in-person date. You can forget about having to look a certain way or what you will have to wear or where to go or how much money you may have to spend. All of that can be wiped away and you can simply be yourself and talk to other gay men about your experiences and learn more about others.
The chat lines are always open and you can chat with single people that live in your hometown or in exotic far away places. To get started, just call the chat line number and you will be instantly connected to someone new. Then have a conversation and see if you vibe with the person on the phone. If you do, great!
Even if you’re shy one way to take the pressure off you from talking a lot is to ask your new phone friend about their life and interests. That way you can listen. You can also tell your phone pal that you’re a really shy person and they may ease you into speaking more or at least understand where you’re coming from. Should the person on the phone not be a good fit, it doesn’t have to be a big deal, simply end the phone conversation. Then you may redial the chat line number when you’re ready to try it out with someone new.
You’d be surprised at how many people you can meet from being a part of the phone dating community. No matter what you’re looking for, there are so many single people on the chat lines that you can connect to and become friends and lovers with.