Tone is one of the most important things to keep in mind while phone dating because it can tell you a lot about what a person is trying to communicate outside of words. Flirting with tone is basically putting emphasis on certain words to let the other person know what you’re thinking or in the mood for. This can be a really fun way. You can try being over the top with your tone or you can be subtle.
With in-person dating, we have the other senses like sight, non-verbal communication, and touch to tell us what a person is trying to say but over the telephone, we only use our voice. In some ways, this can be a simple way to notice whether someone has an interest in you.
The easiest way to understand tone can be to observe. Think about the conversations you have with phone friends. How do you express that you’re happy or sad? Another way to understand someone’s tone is to ask him though sometimes that may be awkward, it’s the most direct way to find out more about a person. Over time and through active listening and observing, you should be able to tell what people mean. Most of the time, we can understand what people mean organically by being in many situations that call for talking and conversing in our lives. It seems as though people don’t typically take the time to consider what tone can mean but it can be helpful for phone dating.
Since the chat lines never close down, you can practice observing others as often as you want to and whatever time is best for you. Just like most things, the more you practice, the more you will find out. Learn more about others and yourself by speaking to new men on the chat lines.